" " " complate desaign home: March 2008

Monday, March 31, 2008

Sterling Townhomes

Linda' s Way
The price might be appealing, but is the style?

List Price: $239,900
Bedrooms: 2
Full Baths: 1
Partial Baths: 2
Square Feet: 1,800




Patriots Way
These townhouses have a better balance and aesthetic.

List Price: $283,000
Bedrooms: 2
Full Baths: 2
Half Bath: 1
Square Feet: 1,650

Sterling Townhomes

Linda' s Way
The price might be appealing, but is the style?

List Price: $239,900
Bedrooms: 2
Full Baths: 1
Partial Baths: 2
Square Feet: 1,800




Patriots Way
These townhouses have a better balance and aesthetic.

List Price: $283,000
Bedrooms: 2
Full Baths: 2
Half Bath: 1
Square Feet: 1,650

Friday, March 21, 2008

Uppies and Downies

The Uppies and Downies is a series of ball games held in Workington each Easter. The games have been supported by the local Daglish family for over 300 years, and I had the pleasure of seeing the Tuesday game last year - and had hoped to be back this year, but unfortunately work commitments made this impossible.

The future of the games is in doubt following the sale of the Cloffocks, an open area on which the games are played, to Tesco - which intends to build a large supermarket and petrol station on the site (see illustration below).

In January Tesco's planning application received approval by Allerdale Council. As well as concerns for the future of the games, other questions have been raised about the way in which the local council conducted the sale.

These games are part of the history and tradition of the local community which Tesco hopes to serve - and it would be a real shame if these were lost. There have been some suggestions to re-locate the games to another site - but this would make it an organised event which is contrary to the spirit and tradition of the games.

On Tuesday evening, the ball was thrown off by Robert Daglish junior, continuing the long family tradition. His father, Robert Daglish senior, talking to the local media about the current situation said:

“I hope that the new Tesco won’t bring a stop the game as it is right in the heart of where the Uppies try to get the ball to. As long I have a breath in my body I want the game to continue. It is part of the tradition of Workington. It would be a sad day if the game had to stop.”

The Uppies won the 2008 series 2-1, their fourth successive win.

See recent coverage from the BBC and Times & Star.

The games are celebrated in a recent book "Uppies and Downies: The extraordinary football games of Britain" by Hugh Hornby, published by English Heritage.

Whilst the book takes its name from the Workington games, it also looks at other similar events around the country and provides a useful calendar of these.


The book includes a photograph from 1872 of Anthony Daglish, pictured holding the balls he had hailed for the Uppies in that and the previous year (the years are on the balls).

There is also reference to an article in the Whitehaven News in 1931 that the Daglish family once owned a 300-year old ball won by an ancestor. I wonder where that is now?

Uppies and Downies

The Uppies and Downies is a series of ball games held in Workington each Easter. The games have been supported by the local Daglish family for over 300 years, and I had the pleasure of seeing the Tuesday game last year - and had hoped to be back this year, but unfortunately work commitments made this impossible.

The future of the games is in doubt following the sale of the Cloffocks, an open area on which the games are played, to Tesco - which intends to build a large supermarket and petrol station on the site (see illustration below).

In January Tesco's planning application received approval by Allerdale Council. As well as concerns for the future of the games, other questions have been raised about the way in which the local council conducted the sale.

These games are part of the history and tradition of the local community which Tesco hopes to serve - and it would be a real shame if these were lost. There have been some suggestions to re-locate the games to another site - but this would make it an organised event which is contrary to the spirit and tradition of the games.

On Tuesday evening, the ball was thrown off by Robert Daglish junior, continuing the long family tradition. His father, Robert Daglish senior, talking to the local media about the current situation said:

“I hope that the new Tesco won’t bring a stop the game as it is right in the heart of where the Uppies try to get the ball to. As long I have a breath in my body I want the game to continue. It is part of the tradition of Workington. It would be a sad day if the game had to stop.”

The Uppies won the 2008 series 2-1, their fourth successive win.

See recent coverage from the BBC and Times & Star.

The games are celebrated in a recent book "Uppies and Downies: The extraordinary football games of Britain" by Hugh Hornby, published by English Heritage.

Whilst the book takes its name from the Workington games, it also looks at other similar events around the country and provides a useful calendar of these.


The book includes a photograph from 1872 of Anthony Daglish, pictured holding the balls he had hailed for the Uppies in that and the previous year (the years are on the balls).

There is also reference to an article in the Whitehaven News in 1931 that the Daglish family once owned a 300-year old ball won by an ancestor. I wonder where that is now?

Sunday, March 16, 2008

THE INVISIBLE ARCHER

In one spirituality forum it was mentioned that we can reach God thru: Truths, Goodness and Beauty of creation, customs and practices.

My daughter once shared to me that it was during their study of Anatomy and Biochemistry that she learned to greatly admire God, our Father, for creating such a wonderful human body.

In my own spiritual journey, God made use of people, things or objects to attract me to Him until finally I learned to focus my eyes solely on the Giver or Creator of these things.

Ivan, in the story below started out seeking for shooting stars and in the end found God, the Invisible Archer... -

*****

THE INVISIBLE ARCHER [1]
By Fr. Nil Guillemette, S. J.

*****
"He persevered as if he were looking on the invisible God..." (Heb 11:27)

*****

WHEN GREGORY of Sevastopol emerged from more than thirty years of reclusion in a hermitage and rejoined his former monastery near Gurzuf, his holiness became so manifest that he was immediately recognized as a starets. This meant that whoever was desirous of attaining spiritual progress could come to Gregory and receive from him expert guidance for his journey to God. And many came from all over central Crimea to consult the old starets. Some even came from as far as Djankoi, Balaklava and Feodosia.

Now in the course of his long years of seclusion Gregory had taken up astronomy as a form of innocent relaxation from his many hours of prayer and meditation. With time he had become thoroughly versed in that science. And so, when he returned to his original monastery of Gurzuf, he set up an observatory and continued his nightly vigils with the stars.

One day a young man knocked at the door of the monastery and asked to see the staret. To Gregory he presented himself as Ivan Stefanovitch Galitsin. The starets took an immediate liking to the youth, who had an air of earnestness and candor about him.

"Have you come for spiritual advice, my son?" Gregory asked with a welcoming smile.

"Oh no Father. I would like to consult you about shooting stars, having heard much about your knowledge in astronomy. You see, since my early childhood I have been greatly interested in shooting stars. They say that, if you happen to see one and immediately make a wish, your wish is granted. Well, I have seen many of them and as yet my wish has never been granted."

"And what is that wish?" the starets asked.

"That I become rich and famous," Ivan answered without hesitating.

The starets laughed, delighted by such ingenuousness.

"Do you honestly think," he queried with a twinkle in his eyes, "that spotting a shooting star can do that for you?"

Ivan looked at the starets with utter seriousness. "Well no, Father. But then I have recently heard that a shooting star passing at the highest point of the sky, at the very zenith, is a different matter. Such stars, I am told, are so rare that the person who sees one is sure to get his wish. And that is why I have come to you, so that you can tell me when such a phenomena will occur in the future."

"Unfortunately, " the starets objected, "no one can predict with accuracy the passing of a shooting star, let alone forecast a rare occurrence like the passing of a shooting star at the zenith. In order to witness such an event, the observer must keep watch all night and every night. This is like what happens in one's prayer life: God's consolations can be given at any time, but in order to receive them one must be constantly in a state of preparedness. Do you understand what I mean?"

In truth Ivan had little experience or interest in spiritual matters. And so, the starets' analogy was lost on him. But he did understand that he could not just go away and come back at a specific date to see a shooting star at the zenith. What then was he to do? Give up his cherished dream of becoming rich and famous? This seemed impossible to the ambitious youth. Was it not normal that an uneducated peasant like him should aspire to improve his lot?

At this point the starets sensed that perhaps it was God who had led Ivan to him, and this for a purpose of his as yet hidden to human eyes. Long years of familiarity with God and of loving attention to the divine workings in his heart had made him adept at discerning these subtle intimations of God's designs. In this case Gregory felt fairly certain that God wanted him to persuade Ivan to remain in the monastery for some time. Acting on the spur of this inspiration, he addressed the young man.

"Listen, Ivan Stefanovitch, " he said, "you are welcome to stay here as long as you wish. I am getting old and I need an assistant at the observatory. You could help me with my work while waiting for your shooting star. And when it appears you will be there to spot it."

The suggestion was gratefully accepted. And thus it came about that Ivan remained in the monastery and kept company to the old monk in the latter's nightly vigils at the observatory. In the course of their work the two beheld a certain number of shooting stars every night, but these were of the usual kind, always confine to one segment of the heavens and not tracing a true diagonal by way of the zenith. Because Ivan had been warned that he might be in for a long period of waiting, he was not too impatient at the delay. Meanwhile, from lack of any better occupation, he began to take an interest in Gregory's work.

Naturally the starets noticed the young man's growing interest in astronomy, and he eventually became his mentor, explaining the basic principles of physics, training the lad in the use of the various instruments of the observatory, teaching him how to calculate the velocity of the heavenly bodies, their height, their orbit, their mass and so forth. At the same time, he would spontaneously share with the young apprentice some of his insights on God, the universe and the spiritual life. In consequence of his prolonged familiarity with a man of such genuine holiness, Ivan's outlook on things began to undergo a transformation. Of course he still dreamed of becoming rich and famous one day, but somehow he felt less obsessed by his dream. On the other hand, under the expert tutoring of the starets he was gradually experiencing the pleasures of discovery. He was even beginning to appreciate in Gregory the particular peace and spiritual joy which emanate from a truly holy person.

And so, when at last the long expected shooting star streaked across the zenith, Ivan was suitably elated, but far less than he had anticipated. Naturally, he made his wish. But somehow the thought of leaving the monastery then and there to seek his fortune in the wide world beyond did not appeal to him. After all he reasoned, he was still young. Fame and fortune could wait a bit. Besides, perhaps a single wish would not be enough to bring about the desired effect. No doubt by repeating the experience a second, or even a third time, he would ensure his future without any fear of failure. All this Ivan explained with his usual earnestness to the old starets, when the latter inquired about his plans, now that he had seen the rare celestial phenomenon he had been waiting for. Gregory nodded gravely and pretended to accept Ivan's explanation. But through his ability to read the human heart, he knew that God's hand was at work here. For indeed, Ivan's passion for fame and fortune was slowly being replaced by another kind of love, although the young man was as yet unaware of it.

After this incident the old monk proceeded to impart more of his spiritual wisdom to his young disciple. During their long vigils in the observatory, especially when there was a lull in their work, he would often remark on the beauty of God's creation, so manifest in the ordered splendor of the heavens, on the ways of finding God in all things, on the various mysteries of the Christian faith. During one of these improvised teachings the old starets talked at length on the love of God for mankind.

"You know Ivan," he was saying, "when I see a shooting star blazing over the horizon, I am often reminded of the Old Roman myth of Cupid, the god of love. He is often represented with a bow and arrow, for the Romans believed that a person fell in love when Cupid shot an arrow in that person's heart. Like all old myths, the myth of Cupid is a groping attempt to express an eternal truth. In this case, the mystery of God's love for the human race and each one of us. The shooting stars are God's arrows directed at us thought the night of space. Each one gives in a flash a brief image of what is invisible. Hence our natural awe at these momentous signs. But they are only signs, reminders. Their meaning is to direct our attention to the invisible Archer."

At such times Ivan would listen intently, caught up in the beauty of the holy man's vision of things. With his heart he would know that he was standing on the threshold of a fascinating world, the world of the soul. Compared to the depths of that world, fame and fortune seemed to pale into insignificance.

Consequently, when shortly afterwards the second shooting star was sighted at the zenith, the young man saw it with new eyes. The awesome phenomenon was no longer merely a means towards fame and fortune - it was an arrow of God, an arrow of love shot by the divine Archer.

During another of his spiritual talks Gregory was expounding on the various stages marking the spiritual journey.

"At the beginning the soul knows little of the invisible Archer and is mainly interested in his flaming arrows of love - the consolations which fill one with sweetness. But soon the periods of darkness become longer and the shooting stars are progressively spaced far apart. Then the soul is left naked before a great void, like the astronomer facing the infinite darkness of space. However, after a time which seems an endless duration of silence and gloom, the soul becomes aware that the darkness contains the presence of God, that it is nourished and strengthened by the darkness, that nothing is more precious than the darkness. For indeed, in the darkness it is the Archer who is embracing the soul."

When the starets would utter this kind of teaching, Ivan would realize that he understood little of what was being said. Yet, by the light that radiated from the face of the starets, he would know that his old master was sharing priceless insights. And so he would feel increasingly captivated by the things of God.

Thus time passed. Ivan had lived more than a year at the monastery, when the third shooting star appeared at the zenith. But the youth hardly noticed it and even forgot altogether to formulate his usual wish. When the starets observed this, he was greatly pleased.

As they were about to leave the observatory the following morning, Gregory inquired in a teasing tone.

"And now, Ivan Stefanovitch Galitsin, I suppose you will venture out into the world to fulfill your ambition for fame and fortune?"

Upon hearing this reference to his earlier dreams the young man became embarrassed. All that seemed so pointless now! How could he think of fame and fortune after all the marvels he had glimpsed at during the past months? He felt at a loss for an answer.

With his usual perceptiveness the starets came to his rescue.

"Would it be that you have lost interest in shooting stars?" he asked gently.

Ivan hesitated, pondering the question. Then, in a flash of insight, he suddenly grasped what had happened to him.

"I guess you are right, Father," he said. "Shooting stars were once my great passion. But now it is the Archer that fascinates me."

Gregory smiled at the young man with great affection.

"Ah," he sighed happily, "I see you have been wounded by his arrows. Now you know that there is no greater happiness for a human being than to be captured by the divine Hunter."

From that day on Ivan's life took on a new turn. He abandoned all worldly ambitions and became a seeker of God. Eventually he became a holy man and a starets like Gregory. And he also gratefully remembered his mentor's profound teaching, when spiritual darkness seemed to engulf him: God is in the darkness, and nothing is of greater moment than to offer one's naked soul to the arrows of the invisible Archer. Eventually the wounds he inflicts become the source of happiness beyond words.
End Notes

1. Fr. Nil Guillemette, S. J., "ON EAGLE'S WINGS-God Tales for Young and Old" St. Paul Publications, Makati, Phil., 1990, Chapter 14, pp 90-96.
2. I have Fr. Nil's permission to use his stories via his letter to me dated Feb. 10, 2001: "In answer to your letter of Feb. 1, which I received yesterday, I gladly give you permission to use my stories in your bible sharings. However, in order to discourage any illegal pirating from unscrupulous readers, please always add the proper reference (author, publisher, book, pages, etc.). "

THE INVISIBLE ARCHER

In one spirituality forum it was mentioned that we can reach God thru: Truths, Goodness and Beauty of creation, customs and practices.

My daughter once shared to me that it was during their study of Anatomy and Biochemistry that she learned to greatly admire God, our Father, for creating such a wonderful human body.

In my own spiritual journey, God made use of people, things or objects to attract me to Him until finally I learned to focus my eyes solely on the Giver or Creator of these things.

Ivan, in the story below started out seeking for shooting stars and in the end found God, the Invisible Archer... -

*****

THE INVISIBLE ARCHER [1]
By Fr. Nil Guillemette, S. J.

*****
"He persevered as if he were looking on the invisible God..." (Heb 11:27)

*****

WHEN GREGORY of Sevastopol emerged from more than thirty years of reclusion in a hermitage and rejoined his former monastery near Gurzuf, his holiness became so manifest that he was immediately recognized as a starets. This meant that whoever was desirous of attaining spiritual progress could come to Gregory and receive from him expert guidance for his journey to God. And many came from all over central Crimea to consult the old starets. Some even came from as far as Djankoi, Balaklava and Feodosia.

Now in the course of his long years of seclusion Gregory had taken up astronomy as a form of innocent relaxation from his many hours of prayer and meditation. With time he had become thoroughly versed in that science. And so, when he returned to his original monastery of Gurzuf, he set up an observatory and continued his nightly vigils with the stars.

One day a young man knocked at the door of the monastery and asked to see the staret. To Gregory he presented himself as Ivan Stefanovitch Galitsin. The starets took an immediate liking to the youth, who had an air of earnestness and candor about him.

"Have you come for spiritual advice, my son?" Gregory asked with a welcoming smile.

"Oh no Father. I would like to consult you about shooting stars, having heard much about your knowledge in astronomy. You see, since my early childhood I have been greatly interested in shooting stars. They say that, if you happen to see one and immediately make a wish, your wish is granted. Well, I have seen many of them and as yet my wish has never been granted."

"And what is that wish?" the starets asked.

"That I become rich and famous," Ivan answered without hesitating.

The starets laughed, delighted by such ingenuousness.

"Do you honestly think," he queried with a twinkle in his eyes, "that spotting a shooting star can do that for you?"

Ivan looked at the starets with utter seriousness. "Well no, Father. But then I have recently heard that a shooting star passing at the highest point of the sky, at the very zenith, is a different matter. Such stars, I am told, are so rare that the person who sees one is sure to get his wish. And that is why I have come to you, so that you can tell me when such a phenomena will occur in the future."

"Unfortunately, " the starets objected, "no one can predict with accuracy the passing of a shooting star, let alone forecast a rare occurrence like the passing of a shooting star at the zenith. In order to witness such an event, the observer must keep watch all night and every night. This is like what happens in one's prayer life: God's consolations can be given at any time, but in order to receive them one must be constantly in a state of preparedness. Do you understand what I mean?"

In truth Ivan had little experience or interest in spiritual matters. And so, the starets' analogy was lost on him. But he did understand that he could not just go away and come back at a specific date to see a shooting star at the zenith. What then was he to do? Give up his cherished dream of becoming rich and famous? This seemed impossible to the ambitious youth. Was it not normal that an uneducated peasant like him should aspire to improve his lot?

At this point the starets sensed that perhaps it was God who had led Ivan to him, and this for a purpose of his as yet hidden to human eyes. Long years of familiarity with God and of loving attention to the divine workings in his heart had made him adept at discerning these subtle intimations of God's designs. In this case Gregory felt fairly certain that God wanted him to persuade Ivan to remain in the monastery for some time. Acting on the spur of this inspiration, he addressed the young man.

"Listen, Ivan Stefanovitch, " he said, "you are welcome to stay here as long as you wish. I am getting old and I need an assistant at the observatory. You could help me with my work while waiting for your shooting star. And when it appears you will be there to spot it."

The suggestion was gratefully accepted. And thus it came about that Ivan remained in the monastery and kept company to the old monk in the latter's nightly vigils at the observatory. In the course of their work the two beheld a certain number of shooting stars every night, but these were of the usual kind, always confine to one segment of the heavens and not tracing a true diagonal by way of the zenith. Because Ivan had been warned that he might be in for a long period of waiting, he was not too impatient at the delay. Meanwhile, from lack of any better occupation, he began to take an interest in Gregory's work.

Naturally the starets noticed the young man's growing interest in astronomy, and he eventually became his mentor, explaining the basic principles of physics, training the lad in the use of the various instruments of the observatory, teaching him how to calculate the velocity of the heavenly bodies, their height, their orbit, their mass and so forth. At the same time, he would spontaneously share with the young apprentice some of his insights on God, the universe and the spiritual life. In consequence of his prolonged familiarity with a man of such genuine holiness, Ivan's outlook on things began to undergo a transformation. Of course he still dreamed of becoming rich and famous one day, but somehow he felt less obsessed by his dream. On the other hand, under the expert tutoring of the starets he was gradually experiencing the pleasures of discovery. He was even beginning to appreciate in Gregory the particular peace and spiritual joy which emanate from a truly holy person.

And so, when at last the long expected shooting star streaked across the zenith, Ivan was suitably elated, but far less than he had anticipated. Naturally, he made his wish. But somehow the thought of leaving the monastery then and there to seek his fortune in the wide world beyond did not appeal to him. After all he reasoned, he was still young. Fame and fortune could wait a bit. Besides, perhaps a single wish would not be enough to bring about the desired effect. No doubt by repeating the experience a second, or even a third time, he would ensure his future without any fear of failure. All this Ivan explained with his usual earnestness to the old starets, when the latter inquired about his plans, now that he had seen the rare celestial phenomenon he had been waiting for. Gregory nodded gravely and pretended to accept Ivan's explanation. But through his ability to read the human heart, he knew that God's hand was at work here. For indeed, Ivan's passion for fame and fortune was slowly being replaced by another kind of love, although the young man was as yet unaware of it.

After this incident the old monk proceeded to impart more of his spiritual wisdom to his young disciple. During their long vigils in the observatory, especially when there was a lull in their work, he would often remark on the beauty of God's creation, so manifest in the ordered splendor of the heavens, on the ways of finding God in all things, on the various mysteries of the Christian faith. During one of these improvised teachings the old starets talked at length on the love of God for mankind.

"You know Ivan," he was saying, "when I see a shooting star blazing over the horizon, I am often reminded of the Old Roman myth of Cupid, the god of love. He is often represented with a bow and arrow, for the Romans believed that a person fell in love when Cupid shot an arrow in that person's heart. Like all old myths, the myth of Cupid is a groping attempt to express an eternal truth. In this case, the mystery of God's love for the human race and each one of us. The shooting stars are God's arrows directed at us thought the night of space. Each one gives in a flash a brief image of what is invisible. Hence our natural awe at these momentous signs. But they are only signs, reminders. Their meaning is to direct our attention to the invisible Archer."

At such times Ivan would listen intently, caught up in the beauty of the holy man's vision of things. With his heart he would know that he was standing on the threshold of a fascinating world, the world of the soul. Compared to the depths of that world, fame and fortune seemed to pale into insignificance.

Consequently, when shortly afterwards the second shooting star was sighted at the zenith, the young man saw it with new eyes. The awesome phenomenon was no longer merely a means towards fame and fortune - it was an arrow of God, an arrow of love shot by the divine Archer.

During another of his spiritual talks Gregory was expounding on the various stages marking the spiritual journey.

"At the beginning the soul knows little of the invisible Archer and is mainly interested in his flaming arrows of love - the consolations which fill one with sweetness. But soon the periods of darkness become longer and the shooting stars are progressively spaced far apart. Then the soul is left naked before a great void, like the astronomer facing the infinite darkness of space. However, after a time which seems an endless duration of silence and gloom, the soul becomes aware that the darkness contains the presence of God, that it is nourished and strengthened by the darkness, that nothing is more precious than the darkness. For indeed, in the darkness it is the Archer who is embracing the soul."

When the starets would utter this kind of teaching, Ivan would realize that he understood little of what was being said. Yet, by the light that radiated from the face of the starets, he would know that his old master was sharing priceless insights. And so he would feel increasingly captivated by the things of God.

Thus time passed. Ivan had lived more than a year at the monastery, when the third shooting star appeared at the zenith. But the youth hardly noticed it and even forgot altogether to formulate his usual wish. When the starets observed this, he was greatly pleased.

As they were about to leave the observatory the following morning, Gregory inquired in a teasing tone.

"And now, Ivan Stefanovitch Galitsin, I suppose you will venture out into the world to fulfill your ambition for fame and fortune?"

Upon hearing this reference to his earlier dreams the young man became embarrassed. All that seemed so pointless now! How could he think of fame and fortune after all the marvels he had glimpsed at during the past months? He felt at a loss for an answer.

With his usual perceptiveness the starets came to his rescue.

"Would it be that you have lost interest in shooting stars?" he asked gently.

Ivan hesitated, pondering the question. Then, in a flash of insight, he suddenly grasped what had happened to him.

"I guess you are right, Father," he said. "Shooting stars were once my great passion. But now it is the Archer that fascinates me."

Gregory smiled at the young man with great affection.

"Ah," he sighed happily, "I see you have been wounded by his arrows. Now you know that there is no greater happiness for a human being than to be captured by the divine Hunter."

From that day on Ivan's life took on a new turn. He abandoned all worldly ambitions and became a seeker of God. Eventually he became a holy man and a starets like Gregory. And he also gratefully remembered his mentor's profound teaching, when spiritual darkness seemed to engulf him: God is in the darkness, and nothing is of greater moment than to offer one's naked soul to the arrows of the invisible Archer. Eventually the wounds he inflicts become the source of happiness beyond words.
End Notes

1. Fr. Nil Guillemette, S. J., "ON EAGLE'S WINGS-God Tales for Young and Old" St. Paul Publications, Makati, Phil., 1990, Chapter 14, pp 90-96.
2. I have Fr. Nil's permission to use his stories via his letter to me dated Feb. 10, 2001: "In answer to your letter of Feb. 1, which I received yesterday, I gladly give you permission to use my stories in your bible sharings. However, in order to discourage any illegal pirating from unscrupulous readers, please always add the proper reference (author, publisher, book, pages, etc.). "

Saturday, March 8, 2008

Daglish - the development of a name

There has been little new Daglish news to write about recently. If you have any stories, photos or anything that might be of interest, please let me know.

Today I attended a meeting of the London branch of the Northumberland & Durham Family History Society. The speaker was Rosalind Moffitt and the subject "Surnames in the North East".

Rosalind studies the history of surnames, in particular those from North East England where her family comes from. After studying English at Durham University, Rosalind trained as a Speech and Language Therapist and spent time working with children. She began her talk by looking at how young children adapt words - and how this might be applied to ways in which surnames developed in an age of widespread illiteracy.

Names might be simplified by dropping syllables from the word or maybe just the last consonant or by using different vowels.

Looking at the entries in the Whickham parish register for marriages - in which Daglishes have appeared since the late 1500s - we can perhaps see some examples of this.

The earliest entry is for the name Daglis, maybe a case where the last consonant has been dropped. Will Daglis married Magdalene Thompson on 30 January 1596.

Under burials, there is an entry for 3 April 1613 which reads:

"A POORE child of Daglis, his wife, and the mother and two other children of Daglis. Buried."

The spelling of Daglis continued to be used until around 1615, after which various others are used - including Dagglish, Dagleish and Dagleese - until the name is shown as Daglesh, a change of vowel. This begins with the marriage of John Daglesh to Barbery Croser on 31 May 1669 and continues until around 1691.

After this date the spelling Daglish is consistently used.

This is how the name may have developed in one key Parish - this may also have been influenced by changes in the local vicar and how the name was written down. In other places the name may have developed differently.

The subject of how the name may have changed is of interest because of some recent developments with the Daglish DNA Study.

We now have matching DNA results with a person named DOUGLAS and with a person named DALGLIESH. Both of these people live in Scotland. Both of these names have been suggested in various reference books as the source of the name Daglish (though neither have been found to be linked through standard research of historical records).

It is perhaps possible to see how Douglas may link to the early records as Daglis, and also to imagine that the Scottish name Dalglish or Dalgliesh may have been simplified if it moved across the border into North East England. This is a subject for further research.

Rosalind Moffitt runs a service Nameswell Surname Research and also writes for Family Tree Magazine.

Daglish - the development of a name

There has been little new Daglish news to write about recently. If you have any stories, photos or anything that might be of interest, please let me know.

Today I attended a meeting of the London branch of the Northumberland & Durham Family History Society. The speaker was Rosalind Moffitt and the subject "Surnames in the North East".

Rosalind studies the history of surnames, in particular those from North East England where her family comes from. After studying English at Durham University, Rosalind trained as a Speech and Language Therapist and spent time working with children. She began her talk by looking at how young children adapt words - and how this might be applied to ways in which surnames developed in an age of widespread illiteracy.

Names might be simplified by dropping syllables from the word or maybe just the last consonant or by using different vowels.

Looking at the entries in the Whickham parish register for marriages - in which Daglishes have appeared since the late 1500s - we can perhaps see some examples of this.

The earliest entry is for the name Daglis, maybe a case where the last consonant has been dropped. Will Daglis married Magdalene Thompson on 30 January 1596.

Under burials, there is an entry for 3 April 1613 which reads:

"A POORE child of Daglis, his wife, and the mother and two other children of Daglis. Buried."

The spelling of Daglis continued to be used until around 1615, after which various others are used - including Dagglish, Dagleish and Dagleese - until the name is shown as Daglesh, a change of vowel. This begins with the marriage of John Daglesh to Barbery Croser on 31 May 1669 and continues until around 1691.

After this date the spelling Daglish is consistently used.

This is how the name may have developed in one key Parish - this may also have been influenced by changes in the local vicar and how the name was written down. In other places the name may have developed differently.

The subject of how the name may have changed is of interest because of some recent developments with the Daglish DNA Study.

We now have matching DNA results with a person named DOUGLAS and with a person named DALGLIESH. Both of these people live in Scotland. Both of these names have been suggested in various reference books as the source of the name Daglish (though neither have been found to be linked through standard research of historical records).

It is perhaps possible to see how Douglas may link to the early records as Daglis, and also to imagine that the Scottish name Dalglish or Dalgliesh may have been simplified if it moved across the border into North East England. This is a subject for further research.

Rosalind Moffitt runs a service Nameswell Surname Research and also writes for Family Tree Magazine.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Doesn't time fly...

OMG March already! Where is the year going? Ive been a busy bee lately making lots of yummy thing for my ebay shop and Im also going to take the plunge and get on Etsy in the next week!
I have spent FAR too much time on a favourite website of mine, MSE, where we have the most amazing "Shabby Chic" thread going from strength to strength, so no wonder my blogging has been some what neglected!!

Hello to all fellow MSE'ers!!!!!!!

x x x

I LOVE banners! So created this "DREAM" banner...isnt it soooo romantic?



Im also loving vintage china at the minute and I hate to see it not being used so I put it to another good use and filled it with vintage style bunnies and spring-y type things!



All items are for sale in my ebay store
Hugs xxx

Doesn't time fly...

OMG March already! Where is the year going? Ive been a busy bee lately making lots of yummy thing for my ebay shop and Im also going to take the plunge and get on Etsy in the next week!
I have spent FAR too much time on a favourite website of mine, MSE, where we have the most amazing "Shabby Chic" thread going from strength to strength, so no wonder my blogging has been some what neglected!!

Hello to all fellow MSE'ers!!!!!!!

x x x

I LOVE banners! So created this "DREAM" banner...isnt it soooo romantic?



Im also loving vintage china at the minute and I hate to see it not being used so I put it to another good use and filled it with vintage style bunnies and spring-y type things!



All items are for sale in my ebay store
Hugs xxx

Monday, March 3, 2008

MORAL VICTORY

Are we having difficulty keeping up with our prayer time? Do we sometimes get discouraged because most of the time we experience dryness in prayer devoid of all consolations? Do we forego prayer because of our work and other activities? On the other hand, despite all these obstacles do we persevere in our desire to please God by consistently keeping up with our appointment with the Lord? The story below is a very insightful one on the value of perseverance in prayer......


MORAL VICTORY [1]
By Fr. Nil Guillemette, S.J.

"Love never fails." - 1Cor 13:8

FROM HIS first day as a novice in a monastic order Brother Bruno experienced a complete failure in getting up before dawn for the first hour of the Divine Office. Of course, he had always known he was a heavy sleeper, but since he had grown up in a city and had never had to get up before daylight, he had hardly felt until then his absolute incapacity to wake up while it was still dark outside. It was only upon entering religious life that he discovered he was physically conditioned to wake up only at sunrise, not before.

Now such weakness was naturally a serious matter for a monk, perhaps even a sign of non-vocation. In fact, the Novice Master told him something to that effect, when he noticed that Brother Bruno had not made a single appearance at Matins during his first month at the abbey. Alarmed at the idea of being unfaithful to the clear requirement of the Rule - and therefore to the will of God expressed through the Rule - Bruno decided to remedy the situation by every possible means. For indeed, he had long ago decided to live his whole life for God, and he was determined that nothing would hold him back from serving God, not even a minor bad habit. And so he set about to find a way of waking up on time for the Office.

The first thing he did was to sleep with his cell door open. Thus he hoped he would be able to hear the bell for reveille. This meant creating quite an unpleasant draft, as well as making his cell bitterly cold. But he was ready to put up with these inconveniences, if it enabled him to hear the bell and get up on time. Unfortunately, it didn't work. And after a week of dismal failure he had to give up.

Then he convinced his cell neighbor, Brother Ludovicus, to come and shake him out of his sleep the moment he himself would wake up. The good friar did this quite faithfully for more than a month. But whatever his efforts, he was never able to wake up Brother Bruno, even after ten minutes of energetic shaking and shouting. In fact he himself ended up several times by being late for Matins because of Brother Bruno. And so, that scheme had to be abandoned.

Then the late sleeper took up drinking various concoctions of herbs which were guaranteed to make a person sleep more lightly. In fact, several members of the community, having learned of Brother Bruno's problem, volunteered numerous recipes to help him. But none worked.

At about that time Bruno's period of Novitiate had come to an end and the question of his admissibility to the temporary vows came up. Eventually, after much debate at the Chapter, he was allowed to pronounce his vows despite his unfortunate handicap; it was judged that his otherwise virtuous life and his obvious efforts to correct his weakness warranted that an exception be made in his case - provided he adopt more stringent methods to cure himself. He had the next three years to try.

During all of those three years Brother Bruno continued his campaign. One among the many means he had recourse to was skip the evening meal: he was hoping that his sleep would be lighter if he slept on an empty stomach. He also arranged for a kind friar to come up in his cell at reveille and throw a pail of icy water on him. But none of these various measures worked.

Naturally, with the passage of time Brother Bruno was more and more concerned over his poor performance. He who so wanted to please God in all things and was actually most exact and generous in all the other areas of his life - simply could not leave his bed on time in the morning! He was thus a chronic violator of the Rule, a poor monk perpetually acting against God's will. What would become of him? And so, with great anguish of soul, he tried even harder than before to find a way to cure his impediment.

By that time his period of temporary vows had expired and he had become eligible for perpetual vows. Naturally his case was thoroughly discussed in Chapter and there were many among the professed members of the community who took a very dim view of his constant absence from Matins. However, in the end they were voted down by a narrow margin and Brother Bruno was admitted to perpetual profession. But the abbot made it very clear to him that his behavior was still in need of correction and that God still required him to obey the Rule, at whatever cost to himself.

Brother Bruno was deeply grateful that he had been accepted permanently in the Order despite his failings. And so, he set about with a renewed vigor to solve his problem. Always with a view of pleasing God in all things, he went on exploring ever new methods for waking up in the morning. For the next twenty years or so, he pursued his quest for the trick that would achieve this. In fact, just at the time when he was working on a complicated device by which a big block of wood was to fall on his feet automatically at the sound of the bell - he died accidentally by tripping and hitting his head on a stone.

Now, upon his arrival at the Gate of Heaven, Brother Bruno was astonished to see Christ Himself coming toward him in awesome majesty and embracing him most cordially.

"Ah, welcome to Paradise, my beloved friend," Christ said to him with a warm smile.

"But - but -" Bruno sputtered, "are you not disappointed Lord that I failed so miserably in my efforts to get up for Matins?"

"Not at all, dear Bruno. You see, not every apparent failure to advance in outward perfection is necessarily a spiritual failure . In your case, given the kind of body you had received from me at birth, success to get up early was beyond your reach, and I never expected you to succeed. But then, when success is not possible, one cannot be said to have failed."

Then Christ took Bruno by the hand and gently guided him beyond the open Gates.

"You see my friend," Christ continued, "more important to me than your success or failure was your determination throughout your long struggle to please me. If that had not been your constant aim, would you not have given up the struggle a long time ago?"

At that moment angels were unrolling for Bruno the special red carpet reserved for great saints. Naturally, he was even more astonished upon seeing that such a special treatment was given to him.

"Why all this, Lord?" he asked.

"Because," Jesus answered, looking at him fondly, "I was not measuring your degree of success, only your love."

End Notes

1. "ARISE MY LOVE -God Tales for Young and Old", by Fr. Nil Guillemette SJ, Chapter 7, pp. 36-40, St. Paul Publications, Makati, Philippines, 1991.
2. I have Fr. Nil's permission to use his stories via his letter to me dated Feb. 10, 2001: "In answer to your letter of Feb. 1, which I received yesterday, I gladly give you permission to use my stories in your bible sharings. However, in order to discourage any illegal pirating from unscrupulous readers, please always add the proper reference (author, publisher, book, pages, etc.). "

MORAL VICTORY

Are we having difficulty keeping up with our prayer time? Do we sometimes get discouraged because most of the time we experience dryness in prayer devoid of all consolations? Do we forego prayer because of our work and other activities? On the other hand, despite all these obstacles do we persevere in our desire to please God by consistently keeping up with our appointment with the Lord? The story below is a very insightful one on the value of perseverance in prayer......


MORAL VICTORY [1]
By Fr. Nil Guillemette, S.J.

"Love never fails." - 1Cor 13:8

FROM HIS first day as a novice in a monastic order Brother Bruno experienced a complete failure in getting up before dawn for the first hour of the Divine Office. Of course, he had always known he was a heavy sleeper, but since he had grown up in a city and had never had to get up before daylight, he had hardly felt until then his absolute incapacity to wake up while it was still dark outside. It was only upon entering religious life that he discovered he was physically conditioned to wake up only at sunrise, not before.

Now such weakness was naturally a serious matter for a monk, perhaps even a sign of non-vocation. In fact, the Novice Master told him something to that effect, when he noticed that Brother Bruno had not made a single appearance at Matins during his first month at the abbey. Alarmed at the idea of being unfaithful to the clear requirement of the Rule - and therefore to the will of God expressed through the Rule - Bruno decided to remedy the situation by every possible means. For indeed, he had long ago decided to live his whole life for God, and he was determined that nothing would hold him back from serving God, not even a minor bad habit. And so he set about to find a way of waking up on time for the Office.

The first thing he did was to sleep with his cell door open. Thus he hoped he would be able to hear the bell for reveille. This meant creating quite an unpleasant draft, as well as making his cell bitterly cold. But he was ready to put up with these inconveniences, if it enabled him to hear the bell and get up on time. Unfortunately, it didn't work. And after a week of dismal failure he had to give up.

Then he convinced his cell neighbor, Brother Ludovicus, to come and shake him out of his sleep the moment he himself would wake up. The good friar did this quite faithfully for more than a month. But whatever his efforts, he was never able to wake up Brother Bruno, even after ten minutes of energetic shaking and shouting. In fact he himself ended up several times by being late for Matins because of Brother Bruno. And so, that scheme had to be abandoned.

Then the late sleeper took up drinking various concoctions of herbs which were guaranteed to make a person sleep more lightly. In fact, several members of the community, having learned of Brother Bruno's problem, volunteered numerous recipes to help him. But none worked.

At about that time Bruno's period of Novitiate had come to an end and the question of his admissibility to the temporary vows came up. Eventually, after much debate at the Chapter, he was allowed to pronounce his vows despite his unfortunate handicap; it was judged that his otherwise virtuous life and his obvious efforts to correct his weakness warranted that an exception be made in his case - provided he adopt more stringent methods to cure himself. He had the next three years to try.

During all of those three years Brother Bruno continued his campaign. One among the many means he had recourse to was skip the evening meal: he was hoping that his sleep would be lighter if he slept on an empty stomach. He also arranged for a kind friar to come up in his cell at reveille and throw a pail of icy water on him. But none of these various measures worked.

Naturally, with the passage of time Brother Bruno was more and more concerned over his poor performance. He who so wanted to please God in all things and was actually most exact and generous in all the other areas of his life - simply could not leave his bed on time in the morning! He was thus a chronic violator of the Rule, a poor monk perpetually acting against God's will. What would become of him? And so, with great anguish of soul, he tried even harder than before to find a way to cure his impediment.

By that time his period of temporary vows had expired and he had become eligible for perpetual vows. Naturally his case was thoroughly discussed in Chapter and there were many among the professed members of the community who took a very dim view of his constant absence from Matins. However, in the end they were voted down by a narrow margin and Brother Bruno was admitted to perpetual profession. But the abbot made it very clear to him that his behavior was still in need of correction and that God still required him to obey the Rule, at whatever cost to himself.

Brother Bruno was deeply grateful that he had been accepted permanently in the Order despite his failings. And so, he set about with a renewed vigor to solve his problem. Always with a view of pleasing God in all things, he went on exploring ever new methods for waking up in the morning. For the next twenty years or so, he pursued his quest for the trick that would achieve this. In fact, just at the time when he was working on a complicated device by which a big block of wood was to fall on his feet automatically at the sound of the bell - he died accidentally by tripping and hitting his head on a stone.

Now, upon his arrival at the Gate of Heaven, Brother Bruno was astonished to see Christ Himself coming toward him in awesome majesty and embracing him most cordially.

"Ah, welcome to Paradise, my beloved friend," Christ said to him with a warm smile.

"But - but -" Bruno sputtered, "are you not disappointed Lord that I failed so miserably in my efforts to get up for Matins?"

"Not at all, dear Bruno. You see, not every apparent failure to advance in outward perfection is necessarily a spiritual failure . In your case, given the kind of body you had received from me at birth, success to get up early was beyond your reach, and I never expected you to succeed. But then, when success is not possible, one cannot be said to have failed."

Then Christ took Bruno by the hand and gently guided him beyond the open Gates.

"You see my friend," Christ continued, "more important to me than your success or failure was your determination throughout your long struggle to please me. If that had not been your constant aim, would you not have given up the struggle a long time ago?"

At that moment angels were unrolling for Bruno the special red carpet reserved for great saints. Naturally, he was even more astonished upon seeing that such a special treatment was given to him.

"Why all this, Lord?" he asked.

"Because," Jesus answered, looking at him fondly, "I was not measuring your degree of success, only your love."

End Notes

1. "ARISE MY LOVE -God Tales for Young and Old", by Fr. Nil Guillemette SJ, Chapter 7, pp. 36-40, St. Paul Publications, Makati, Philippines, 1991.
2. I have Fr. Nil's permission to use his stories via his letter to me dated Feb. 10, 2001: "In answer to your letter of Feb. 1, which I received yesterday, I gladly give you permission to use my stories in your bible sharings. However, in order to discourage any illegal pirating from unscrupulous readers, please always add the proper reference (author, publisher, book, pages, etc.). "